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Is forgiving someone who doesn't regret beneficial for you?
Forgiving a behaviour from someone who has a significantly different moral value system will make you less discerning and more prone to be hurt in a similar way in the future.
You can't forgive without understanding the whole situation.
You were already too forgiving and open, that's why you got hurt in the first place - forgiving now would be to throw the whole hard-earned knowledge out the window.
No, it will make you more spontaneous and less distrusting, so that your outlook on new situations is fresher and not tainted by the past.